White girl dating mexican
While in Mexico, I used the opportunity to interview five different Mexican men on how they felt about interracial dating, particularly black women.
The information I received will be insightful for women interested in pursuing these men.
While Mexican men have a reputation for being super macho, this is not always the case.
Canadian men are more politically correct on the outside perhaps, but not on the inside.
Values vary a lot from class to class, so, assuming your target for dating will be an upper middle to upper class woman, here are some suggestions to keep in mind:1. The concept of “waiting until marriage” is 99% gone.- If she’s ready for sex on the first date, she’s not a keeper. Don’t make noises while eating, chew with your mouth closed, don’t speak until you swallow, eat slow. Don’t freak out if she wants you to meet her parents, siblings and/or the rest of the family. About your inquiries:-"Mexican women expect to be spoiled by their men”. If you date a materialistic one, yes she will expect that.
Actually when she pronounces those words, you know she’s a keeper.- Men walk on the outer side of the sidewalk. In some more conservative circles, sex doesn’t come into play until you are a “steady” boyfriend. Manners- Keep both wrists on the table (as opposed to the USA, where it’s one hand on your lap, one on the table).- Do not rest your elbows on the table.- Your manners at the table are VERY important. Even if you have a Ph D and make millions, if you eat like an uneducated farmer you will be dumped.- Meeting her parents doesn’t mean you are committed to anything.
After a few dates it’s ok to say yes to her “Dinner is on you but let me pay for dessert/ice cream/movies this time” proposal. When Mexican men want one day hookups they go to beaches to meet some “gringas”. Sex begins when you are in an official relationship.
But for the vast majority of educated women I know, this is not true.
Picture this: On one of your dates, you cook dinner together, you both set the table, you both clean up the mess, and you finish by doing the dishes. As in every other culture, she will dismiss you if you try too hard, she will think you've never had a girlfriend if you are corny, and she would rather you spend your money having fun than on dead flowers rotting somewhere (flowers are expensive by the way, and you only buy them for funerals and hospital visits).Be especially skeptical if this follows the first date, especially a date where you didn’t sleep with him.